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Don't Stay In a Relationship Out of Habit

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Don't stay in a relationship out of habit. So many women do this and I just don't get it. It's a waste of time, energy and patience. When you do this, you're wasting the best years of your life on a guy who isn't that serious about you. Don't do this

Don't settle for good enough. Maybe you're desperate to get married and have children- both of which are fair. Maybe you want one or the other. You might be fine not getting married but, want to move in together and do everything without the piece of paper. It doesn't matter- you just want it and you want it now. I understand the frustration. But, hang in there, let me help you, and wait for Mr. Right.

I see a lot of women doing this- especially in my age group. They have been with someone for a few years and won't leave even though the writing is on the wall. Sometimes, it's obvious he's not going to propose or that he isn't Mr. Right. But, after multiple years, they accept the situation and maybe even romanticize it. They tell themselves they have a solid relationship. But, if the right woman came along, he would leave and propose to her within a year. It may sound harsh but, it's just the way it is.

Don't do this. If a relationship isn't working, value yourself enough to civilly walk away. If a relationship is going nowhere, no that it's time to either book a session with me or walk away. If it's been two years and he hasn't proposed, you definitely should walk away. You're better than selling yourself short. I don't care if it's been five days or fifty years. If it isn't working, have the dignity to end it.

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