However, he won't be wooed with your salary, degrees or other accomplishments. Your feminine essence wins him over. Letting him properly court you wins him over. Losing the "I don't need a man" attitude wins him over. Should you be independent? Of course. But, everyone needs someone. I can count the people on one hand who want to die alone.
It should also go without saying that a man should never belittle those accomplishments either. If he does, that's your cue to run. A quality man is impressed by a quality woman. He will happily show off a woman who is intelligent, gorgeous, and maybe even a little out of his league.
Don't believe me? Here are some examples. Billionaire Sara Blakely's husband pursued her relentlessly. My dad pursued my mom- despite the fact that she was six years older, divorced and made more money. Plenty of celebrities and high powered career women were pursued by their husbands.
No matter how gorgeous, rich, or perfect you are, chasing him will ultimately be counterproductive. If that were the case, would so many gorgeous models and actresses be single? Probably not. If he's interested, he will come to you. If he isn't, he won't. It's really that simple. Could he be a bit intimidated by you? Sure. Will he get over it if he's interested in you? If he's an emotionally healthy man, of course.
If you enjoyed this FREE blog post, I want you to know that I go so much deeper into finding love in less time in my coaching sessions. For more information, book your free initial Zoom or E-mail consultation today.