I think it’s crazy that so many people give up on love. In a way, it’s funny because there are people who say “I don’t have time for a relationship though I don’t time to get married I’ll save that for later”. However, they complain about being single! If you’re not ready to settle down, that’s fine. However, don’t make excuses for why you can’t find someone. There’s someone for everyone. In all honesty, there are people with crazier schedule who are happily married and it works out! So, don’t be discouraged.
You may think the timing isn’t right. Trust me- the timing is never right for anything across the board. This is true for marriage, starting a family (if you go that route), starting a business- anything! Personally, I’m not gonna rush it or force it. However, some people just give up. You can focus on yourself and be open for who and what you want to come to you.
On the other extreme, you shouldn’t just go husband hunting either. that’s I don’t personally like that I don’t think that’s a good idea you know don’t just go do something to get a guy so you aren’t alone. Do what you need to do to become the best version of yourself and he’ll just show up. It’s counter intuitive but, it happens
I know people who have met in some crazy ways. I know a couple who met in a Tel Aviv S&M Club. I don’t know if they’re still together but because we’ve lost touch but. you know I know other other people who were one-night stands and got married. People meet in all sorts of ways! Just be open to love don’t make excuses and don’t just give up on your dreams
While having a partner is amazing, don’t force it or rush it. Personally, I can’t wait to be married. I cannot wait to meet the right person and settle down. However, I don’t advocate getting married just the sake of getting married. I see people do this all the time- either out of desperation to have children, insecurities, to please their family or to avoid being alone. Get married for love- not to use someone as a means to an end.
Just don’t give up! There are people who have busier schedules that are happily married so, don’t think that your situation makes a difference. If you’re somebody who just likes to be left alone and you want to die alone, that’s fine. I know people like that and there is no judgment on my end. However, own your desires and know that what you want is on the way. Just be patient and have fun until then! Don’t give up!